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Forever Your Loving Family Forever Loved July 2, 2012
 
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We're devastated that You're gone
We'd've done anything to keep You here with us
Right here where You belong
We didn't know that life would take
Such an unexpected path
That You'd be separated from us so soon
Heartbreaking reality we struggle to grasp
And bitter though our losing You has been
And so profound is the pain that we bear
We're sadder still at no chance for goodbye
No final expression of our deep Love and care
Yet believing that You're not too far away
That your Spirit still lingers quite near
We'll say our goodbyes in our words and our thoughts
Trusting that each one You'll hear
 Know that You were Loved in the truest of ways
So deep that only our hearts can give expression
You'll be FOREVER surrounded by our LOVE
For we're sending it straight up to Heaven
 Know that You'll be Cherished by each one of us
For Your example and kindness we'll treasure
We understand how Your life was a gift
That was meant to bless us forever
And though WE MISS YOU TERRIBLY
We want Your Spirit to be free
Free to enjoy all the wonders of Heaven
Not bound to us in our grief
So watch over us with Happiness from Heaven ...
ღღღღ What We Wish Others Understood June 26, 2012
 
What We Wish Others Understood
 
 We wish You would not be afraid to speak child's name.  Our child lived and was important and we need to hear her name.  If we cry or get emotional when You talk about child, we wish You knew that it isn't because You have hurt us; the fact that our child died has caused our tears.  You have allowed us to cry and for that we thank You.  Crying and emotional outbursts are healing.We will have emotional highs and lows, ups and down.  We wish You wouldn't think that if we have a good day our grief is all over or that if we have a bad day we need psychiatric counseling.  We wish You knew that the death of a child is different from other losses and must be viewed separately.  It is the ultimate tragedy and please don't compare her death to Your loss of a parent, a spouse or a pet.  Being a bereaved parent is not contagious so we wish You wouldn't shy away from us.  We wish You knew that all of the "crazy" grief reactions that we are having are in fact very normal.  Depression, anger, frustration, hopelessness and the questioning of values and beliefs are to be expected following the death of a child.  We wish You wouldn't expect our grief to be over in six months.  The first few years are to be exceedingly traumatic for us.

We wish for You to understand the physical reactions to grief.  We may gain weight or lose weight, sleep all the time or not at all, develop a host of illnesses or be accident prone -- all of which may be related to our grief.  Our daughter's birthday, the anniversary of her death, and holidays are terrible times for us.  We wish You could tell us that You are thinking about our Child on these days, and if we get quiet and withdraw, just know that we are thinking about our daughter and don't try to us into being cheerful.  It is normal and good that most of us re-examine our faith, values, and beliefs after losing a child.  We will question things we have been taught all of our lives and hopefully come to some new understanding with our God.  We wish You would let us tangle with our religion without making us feel guilty.These are just temporary crutches and the only way we can get through this grief is to experience it.  We have to hurt before we can heal.  We wish You understood that grief changes people.  We are not the same people we were before our daughter died and we will never be that person again.  If You keep waiting for us to "get back to our old selves" You will remain frustrated. We are new creatures with new thoughts, dreams, aspirations, values, and beliefs.  Please try to get to know the new us -- maybe You'll like us still.  We believe that instead of sitting around and waiting for our wishes to come true, we have an obligation to tell people some of the things we have learned about our grief.  We can teach these lessons with great kindness, believing that people have good intentions and want to do what is right, but just don't know what to do with us.

Author Unknown
 
 
Loving Mommy Blessed Rest my Love June 25, 2012
 

 

God knew that You were tired
A cure was not to be
He put His arms around You
As said please come to me.

I watched You, tears in my eyes
As You slowly passed away
I wanted to keep You with me
Yet knew You could not stay.

A beautiful heart stopped beating
At last You were at rest
I guess God had to prove to me
He only takes the best.

No one could ever take Your place
If I live a million years
Each night Your name is on my lips
My eyes still full of tears.

I know that You're in Heaven
As I search the sky above
Sending You a silent message
From my heart that's full of Love.

 

~Barbara~ ^i^Caroline Scanlon's Nana June 21, 2012
 
Loving Mommy Sweet Memories Of You Vee June 21, 2012
 
I miss seeing Your number on my caller ID
I miss the hearing Your voice saying "Hi Mom!"and ''I Love You Mom'' when I answered the phone
I miss how You said "thank you, mom" or ''thank you dad'' after every meal we cooked
and that You appreciated everything.
I miss how we used to cook or bake together and make all the mess in the kitchen
I miss meeting You for Lunch on Your Lunch break( so now I meet with Your brother for Lunch) and we speak of You how much You loved dining out.
I miss colouring Your hair...and You colour mine....and then we would make a big mess in the bath....but I still miss You.
I miss You going out with Your brother and when You come home You tell me stories.
I miss how You and Your brother would be in your beds ready to sleep,I hear You both talking and when You hear me coming You both make believe You are sleeping....Oh how I miss that
I miss Your beautiful smile, Your sparkling eyes,Your soft hands,the smell of Your hair, Your giggles, the sound of Your voice, hugging You, how happy I felt when You were happy.
I miss You all the time my Loving Vanessa.
Your Loving Family ღღღღ Sending all our Love to Heaven VEE June 20, 2012
 
In tears I saw You sinking,
I know Your in Heaven watching down to see how we get around
I know You frown when You see us down.
I know You show us the light when all we see is the dark.
I know Your in a better place, I just wish I could see Your face.
I know You miss us, we miss You too VANESSA
I know times are rough, but we try to make it through.
I wish I could turn back the hand of time and let the light shine.
I know Your waiting for me.
I know Your going to show me, all the things we could never see.
I know You can hear me, and You shall see me, when my time comes to be.
I no longer fear death when I reminisce on the times we used to have.
I hated life when I saw You go, but now I know that Your closer to me, then ever before.
I let You into my heart, my soul, I'd give You my last breath just to hear You breath. 
I didn’t think I could make it, but You give me strength when I don't feel I could walk the length.
So this is just me saying thanks, thanks for all the times we had..Thanks for giving me strength I'll see You when my time comes, but I have stuff to do till then ,Dad really misses You Vincent does too :(
We can't wait till we get to see Your beautiful face again we all know Your sportin the halo;) because God says so.
See You at Heavens gates when God says its our time
 I’ll bring Your blanket we all know You cant hang with out!!
Cathy~Mom of David Giraud ~THE DAY IS COMING, WHEN WE'LL HAVE R TEARS DRIED~ June 19, 2012
 
Heart Broken Mommy I Never Knew :( June 13, 2012
 
 
I never knew how much I could miss You
Until the day I could see You no more
I never knew how empty my heart could be 
I never knew how a heart could ache
No medicine can take this pain away
My soul has been bruised and torn
I became a different person that day :(
I never knew heart-ache until now
I can be in a crowd and yet feel alone
So few people I can share my pain with
I wish this terrible pain is gone
I never knew but now I know
With the loss of my Precious daughter
My life, my world changed
I never knew until, I lost You my Vanessa
 
 
Forever Loving Mommy My Precious daughter June 8, 2012
 
 
VANESSA
It's been so difficult without You here
The pain is deep and very severe
If I could have just one more day
I have a list of things I love to say
You were an amazing part of my life
I'll Cherish all the memories we made together
And hold them close to my heart
Daddy and Your brother miss You dearly
I tell them that You can see us clearly
I know Heaven got a good Angel
When they called Your name
However,life here without You
Will NEVER be the same
I try to stay strong and do my best
But part of me went with You
The day You was laid to rest
My tears don't seen to stop
We are really really trying
To move on without You
Really seems so unfair
The pain is so hard to bare
We all hope to see You again
So until then God comfort us
And show us the way.
 
Mommy ~♥~ You always sang this with Estie June 5, 2012
 
"I'll Fly With You"
I still believe in Your eyes
I just don't care what
You have done in Your life
Baby I'll always be here by Your side
Don't leave me waiting too long
Please come by
I, I, I, I still believe in Your eyes;
There is no choice,
I belong to Your life
Because I will live
To Love You someday;
You'll be my baby
And we'll fly away
And I'll fly with You,
I'll fly with You,
I'll fly with You

You are, are, are, are, are, are
You are, are, are, are, are, are
You are, are, are, are, are, are

Every day and every night,
I always dream that
You are by my side
Oh, baby, every day
And every night,
Well I said everything's
Gonna be alright
And I'll fly with You,
I'll fly with You,
I'll fly with You

You are, are, are, are, are, are
You are, are, are, are, are, are

Dream of me
I still believe in Your eyes
I just don't care what
You've done in Your life
Baby I'll always
Be here by Your side;
Don't leave me
Waiting too long,
Please come by
I, I, I, I still believe in Your eyes;
There is no choice,
I belong to Your life
Because I will live
To Love You some day;
You'll be my baby
And we'll fly away
And I'll fly with You,
I'll fly with You,
I'll fly with You

Every day and every night,
I always dream that
You are by my side
Oh, baby, every day
And every night,
Well I said everything's
Gonna be alright
And I'll fly with You,
I'll fly with You,
I'll fly with You

You are, are, are, are, are, are
You are, are, are, are, are, are



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